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Parenting Tips for Fathers


Fathers have a special place in children's lives. Children whose fathers take an active part in their daily lives tend to be mroe well-adjusted and better equipped for success. It's not easy being a father, but don't think that you aren't as important as a mother. Roles may not always be the same, but your interest in your children can make a significant difference. Be proud of your responsibilities and your efforts. Children don't need perfect fathers; they need caring and involved fathers.

Here are some ways for Dads to be involved.

  • Give your child hugs and kisses often; children need physical comfort and contact from their fathers.
  • Tell them how much they mean to you, "You're really important to me."
  • Praise their efforts, especially if they don't succeed; teach them the importance of doing their best.
  • Give your child rules and make sure your rules are clear to them; don't say "maybe" when you mean "no."
  • Explain your rules; it's important that children understand why they need to follow those rules.
  • Be consistend with your rules; children get confused when you seem to change your mind without any reason.
  • Use effective discipline to help children develop self-control; set limits and encourage children to feel good about themselves.
  • Look directly at your children when they talk to you.
  • Gain your children's trust by listening to them when they come to you with a problem. Children will welcome your guidance, but are not likely to listen to lectures.
  • Be honest with your children; admit your mistakes and teach your children the importance of taking responsibility and making amends.
  • Tell your children that they can come to you with any questions, otherwise they my receive inappropriate answers from other people.
  • Remember that you are your children's role model; they are looking to you to learn how a responsible and mature adult acts.
  • Do household chores with your children; make them feel good about helping you and teach them that fathers also share household duties.
  • Encourage your children to think for themselves; guide and help them with their decision making process.


Reprinted with permission from Prevent Child Abuse Vermont.

 

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